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In order to discover what makes a sin unforgivable, let’s get down to basics. We’ll keep this simple, but the truth is profound.
The heart of God’s revelation to humanity is encapsulated in the most famous of Scriptures. Let’s plumb some of its depths:
John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
This verse affirms that God gave his one and only, because God loves the world. Jesus’ sacrifice was not just for “good” people or most people, but for all of humanity – the entire world. The verse goes on to reveal the heart-breaking fact that not everyone will accept the gift of eternal life. Only those who believe in the Son will be saved, and the rest of the Bible reveals that the belief required involves not just entrusting one’s eternity, but one’s whole life into Jesus’ hands. It includes believing in Jesus’ love and wisdom and goodness so much that you are at least willing to be made willing to submit to his desires for your life. Nevertheless, the sad practical reality that some will refuse to believe, does not alter the glorious truth that God gave the life of his only Son because he wants every single person to be saved. To make sure that we get this, Scripture spells it out:
1 Timothy 2:3-4 . . . God our Savior, who wants all men to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.
2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.
(Emphasis mine.)
How is it possible for Almighty God to end up with anything less than what he wants? Only because the God who is love wants our love, and love is a meaningless sham unless there is freewill. Since the Almighty, the God of love, wants it, nothing in heaven or hell could prevent our salvation/forgiveness through Jesus, except our refusal to accept it.
Let’s continue to unlock the treasures in the core of the gospel.
God’s Son died (paid the ultimate price – bore the full punishment) for the sins of the entire world (every sin, not one sin is excluded) so that whoever (not one person is left out of this offer) believes in Jesus (the offer is to everyone, but one must accept it by believing in the forgiving power of Jesus’ sacrifice) should not perish but have eternal life.
Jesus did not die just for “minor” sins, but for the sins of the entire world:
Isaiah 45:22 Turn to me and be saved, all you ends of the earth; for I am God, and there is no other.
John 3:17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
John 1:29 The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him and said, “Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!”
1 John 2:2 He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world.
1 John 4:14 And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world.
2 Corinthians 5:19 that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men’s sins against them.
(Emphasis mine.)
Since Jesus died for the sins of the entire world, it has to include every sin you have ever committed, no matter how many, no matter how willful, no matter how atrocious and irrespective of whether it happened before or after you gave your life to Christ.
Let’s remove any doubt concerning the Lord’s willingness to forgive those who commit willful, atrocious and repeated sins after salvation, but eventually repent. If God loves and forgives even his enemies, how much more certain it is that he will love and forgive his friends! Although this logic is almost irresistible, the Lord is so keen for us to grasp the fact that we don’t even have to leave this to logical deduction: the Bible repeatedly declares this very fact.
Romans 5:10 For if, when we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life!
Romans 8:32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all – how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?
Hebrews 7:25 Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them.
John 10:28 I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one can snatch them out of my hand.
Jesus died to take upon himself full punishment for every sin that has ever been committed so that every sinner could be fully forgiven and have eternal life.
This being so, every sin has to be forgivable provided the sinner accepts by faith the power of Jesus’ death to forgive his/her every sin.
Once again, let’s see this clearly and emphatically stated in the Word of God:
John 6:40 For my Father’s will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day. (Emphasis mine.)
This is not some theory: it is the Word of God. It is not just what you and I want: it is God’s declared will, put in black and white by the God of Truth for all of heaven and earth to see. Anything contradicting this verse, must of necessity be a lie. This verse is so significant that it should be pondered and read over and over until it is indelibly imprinted on your mind.
Since there is salvation through no one but Jesus (Acts 4:12), any sin – no matter how small – is unforgivable if a person dies, still refusing to accept God’s forgiveness through faith in the forgiving power of Jesus’ sacrifice. On the other hand, every sin is forgivable if a person accepts God’s forgiveness through faith in the forgiving power of Jesus’ sacrifice.
So the critical sin is to refuse to have faith in the forgiving power of Jesus’ sacrifice. As explained in the previous webpage, this is the sin Jesus was referring to when he spoke of the unforgivable sin. Jesus was addressing people who refused to acknowledge that the Savior of the world was from God. Instead of admitting to themselves that Jesus was of God, they chose to believe the ridiculous notion that Jesus’ power came not from the Holy Spirit but from the devil. Rather than accept their Savior, they convinced themselves that Jesus was demon-possessed. For as long as anyone refuses to believe that Jesus, the Savior of the world, is from God, that person is rejecting God’s costly and only provision of forgiveness.
A sin is never rendered unforgivable by the God of love suddenly turning unloving and no longer wanting to forgive. Nor can a sin become unforgivable by the God of truth suddenly becoming a liar and breaking his promise that “everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life.” A sin is rendered unforgivable only if the sinner dies refusing to accept the forgiveness that Jesus gave his all to make available.
John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. (Emphasis mine.)
If you truly believe that verse then, as explained above, you will, by faith in the integrity of God’s Word, believe that by dying Jesus suffered full punishment for your every sin – no matter how willful and atrocious and repeated – and that in the sight of the holy Lord you are therefore cleansed of all wrongdoing.
When the devil tempted Jesus in the wilderness by quoting Scripture, Jesus did not search the Internet for the opinions of Rev. Dr. Tom, Dick and Harry on that Scripture. Did you know that pornography is the driving force behind the growth and popularity of the Internet? That’s how much the Evil One is behind the Internet. Do you really think the deceiver, the enemy of truth, has decided to let biblical material into his domain without trying his utmost to bring confusion by flooding the Internet with “Bible-based Christian sites” he has inspired? You just have to consider Jesus having to tell his close friend and chosen apostle, Peter, “Get behind me, Satan!” to realize how the Evil One can speak even though sincere Christians. In whose interest is it for you to think yourself unforgivable? God’s? Even if our loving Lord were the heartless beast the devil would like you to think he is, what would God gain by terrorizing you now? He has all eternity to torment you if that’s what he wants. No, it is only the devil who gains by making people think Jesus will not forgive them. By this malicious lie he seeks to nullify our crucified Lord’s victory over the devil. He cannot stop God from loving us and from having provided for our forgiveness. He can only try to trick us into robbing ourselves by not availing ourselves of the forgiveness that cost Christ so much to make available to us.
Neither did Jesus consult all the theologians and Bible scholars of his day about the verse the devil was quoting. Instead, Jesus frequently told these Bible “experts,” such things as, “You nullify the word of God for the sake of your tradition,” (Matthew 15:2) and “You are in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God” (Matthew 22:29).
Neither did Jesus say, “Well, devil, if you look at the historical context of that verse . . . And the ancient Hebrew means . . .” Jesus didn’t in the slightest analyze or argue about the Scripture the devil quoted. He merely quoted another Scripture that was indisputable and contrary to what the devil was implying. That was it, as far as Jesus was concerned. Case closed. No need for further argument.
This is what I have sought to do in this webpage. No need to argue with the devil about some obscure Scripture. One indisputable Scripture is enough. (In actual fact, John 3:16 is supported by an enormous number of Scriptures, such as those listed in A Sample of the Scriptural Proof and Rock Solid Bible Truth.) Then we need to act on the revealed will of God, refusing to be like those who are “always learning but never able to acknowledge the truth” (2 Timothy 3:7). Stop dithering and start believing. Stop going from website to website. Stop endlessly considering arguments and counter-arguments, trying to match wits with the devil – who is our intellectual superior and our spiritual inferior – and put your faith in Jesus.
Put your faith not in man, but in God. He alone is trustworthy. He wants everyone to be saved. If it were possible and consistent with love, he would save everyone, but salvation is possible only through faith in Jesus, and love is possible only where people have the freedom to choose. Since, as the Word of God insists, God is so loving, there is no way he would deny forgiveness to anyone sincerely seeking it through the means God has provided – faith in the saving power of Jesus’ sacrifice.
I recently overheard a woman saying, “If you do that, I’ll kill you!” Terrifying words? Not to me. I did not have to analyze her words. I know her. She is not a murderer. I therefore know she was seeking to give a stern warning; nothing more.
To be sure you have correctly understood what a person means, it is not enough just to know the words used; you must know the person uttering those words. And that’s the only way anyone will understand the Bible. You must know the Author.
I know God. I know his loving heart and his passion to save/forgive everyone who lets him by merely regretting his/her sin and looking to Jesus, God’s only Savior, for forgiveness.
Romans 8:32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all – how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?
Do you really think God put his Son through all that agony, putting upon him the sins of the entire world, only to waste it by refusing to forgive anyone who desperately wants forgiveness?
Romans 5:10 For if, when we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life!
Some of us dare entertain the bizarre thought that God is less forgiving of sins committed and repented of after we are saved. If God forgave you when you were his enemy, do you really think he would abandon you after you have become his friend and long to continue the friendship? What maters is not what you did yesterday or ten years ago, but whether you will let God remove your sin today.
Saved by Faith
To ask more than once for forgiveness of the same sin shows a serious lack of faith in the forgiving power of Jesus’ sacrifice. We have heard that we are saved by grace through faith, but have we truly understood it?
John 6:40 For my Father’s will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day.
Romans 3:22 This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. . . .
Romans 5:1 Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ,
Galatians 2:16 know that a man is not justified by observing the law, but by faith in Jesus Christ. So we, too, have put our faith in Christ Jesus that we may be justified by faith in Christ and not by observing the law, because by observing the law no one will be justified.
Philippians 3:9 and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ— the righteousness that comes from God and is by faith.
Ephesians 2:8-9 For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast.
(Emphasis mine)
We receive salvation (full forgiveness) not through begging but through faith in the saving power of Jesus. Either Jesus died for the forgiveness of your every sin or Jesus is a fake. You must decide what you will choose to believe. No one – not even God – can have faith for you. Faith is a decision, not a feeling. You must decide that you will believe in the power of Jesus’ sacrifice, and keep believing, no matter what feelings and doubts surge through you. Faith is about holding on, even when all the hordes in hell mock you and claim that you are unforgivable.
If you give in to doubting your salvation, you might as well paint a target on yourself and tell all of hell to use you for target practice. Demonic hordes will keep treating you as a punching bag until you prove to them by your continual resistance that you will never fall for their lie that Jesus is unable to save those who come to him. Attacks may last for many weeks but they will gradually fade once your spiritual enemies become convinced that nothing can shake your faith in the saving power of Jesus.
Conclusion
I regularly have people writing to me asking if I know of anyone who has been forgiven after deliberately and repeatedly cursing the Holy Spirit (which I do) or committing some other specific sin. Let me put it this way: how many murderers or rapists do I have to know before I believe that Jesus will forgive murder or rape? Over and over and over, the Bible says that Jesus forgives all sin. That has to include any sin you or anyone else has ever managed to dream up and before death repented and sought forgiveness through faith in Jesus. Everyone seems to fear that he is she is an exception, but God in his Word allows no room for exceptions.
Study this Bible truth:
(Emphasis mine)
If you studied that verse, you will know that the deciding factor as to whether your sin can be forgiven has nothing to do with how gross or repeated the sin – God promises in his Word to “purify us from all unrighteousness.” This Scripture (and many others) reveals that whether your sins are unforgivable hinges not on the nature of your sin, but on this on thing: whether God “is faithful and just.” All that is required is that “we confess our sins” and put our faith in the One who died in our place. Take your eyes off the greatness of your sin and fix your gaze on the greatness and moral integrity of you Savior.
Christ defeated the devil’s attempt to twist Scripture, not by examining every theological argument about the disputed Scripture, but simply by holding on to another Scripture whose meaning was clear. Seeing that Jesus was resolute in holding on to Scripture, the devil left him, “him for a season,” or as the NIV puts it, “until an opportune time” (Luke 4:13). You can expect no more than Jesus received. If you are resolute in holding on to Scripture’s affirmation that forgiveness and eternal life are available to everyone who seeks it through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ, the devil might eventually leave you – but only for a while. When you least expect it, wham! he’ll be back again, pouring on all the doubt and guilt and condemnation and emptiness and feelings that God has abandoned you – every powerfully convincing, deceptive feeling he can possibly muster. Salvation is through faith and this is your opportunity to shine, by proving that your faith is in Jesus and not in deceptively powerful feelings that are inconsistent with the Word of God and the heart of God. The devil is a loser because every time he attacks and you resist, your faith grows stronger. And faith is of infinite and eternal value.
God is love. He wants no one to perish but for all to come to repentance and put their faith in Jesus so that he can give them eternal life. Any argument to the contrary, whether supposedly based on Scripture or anything else, must be false, no matter how deceptively persuasive it may seem to you and no matter how strong your feelings of guilt and rejection from God.
What matters most to God is not how disgusting or atrocious or frequent your sins are, but whether you keep honoring God by believing in Christ’s power to forgive you.
I have much more to share, but please don’t just skim this page. It is the very foundation of the Christian faith. If we don’t get this right, the rest of our spiritual lives will crumble. Please prayerfully read this page over and over until you fully accept the reality of God’s forgiveness of your every sin and the truth sinks deep into your spirit.
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Feeling Rejected by God An important part of this series of webpages
Unforgivable? The part of the series that deals with the unforgivable sin
Testimonies They thought they were unforgivable
Scriptures Some of the vast number of Scriptures proving that you can be forgiven
Discovering and Enjoying God’s Love for You A separate but very important series
Demons The beginning of a series of webpages
Dealing with Depression and Discouragement
God & Suffering Coping with fears that God might be harsh and unloving
Becoming a Winner Breaking addictions and besetting sins
Encouragement When You Feel Defeated
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